Apathy is not compatible with love

The Five Hate Languages

The Five Hate Languages

I’ve been thinking that if there are five primary love languages (words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, and physical touch) to build connection, then certainly there must be opposite forms of this to express or to feel hate and dissonance. And that also means that we may even be expressing in ourselves in a way that harms others without realizing as well.

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National Loving Day
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National Loving Day

Remember, justice isn’t arrived at because people want to uphold the status quo or because social order is prioritized over people. Sometimes, it takes troublemakers to bring about change. But always, without a doubt, it requires a generous dose of courage, empathy, and love. Here’s to National Loving Day, a reminder that it is always worth fighting for the people we love.

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Rushing and Navigating
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Rushing and Navigating

When is rushing a good idea? When we think about both our professional and personal lives, there’s a general consensus that rushing is a bad idea because it can often lead to mistakes. Like interest, those errors can compound if let unchecked and uncorrected.

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